The age old adage of kill them with kindness is the perfect approach. If they want to stand there and tear you down, insult you, talk about you…….let them! Be the bigger, stronger woman/man and smile, wave and ask them how their day was. There are many things I would like to say and do, but I focus on stepping back, taking a breath and being the bigger person. I have had to deal with my fair share of people like that in my past as well as presently.
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It is difficult dealing with those types of people. DONT LET ANYTHING DULL YOUR SPARKLE BY DOREEN VIRTUE This book was marketed as in the subtitle: How to Break free of Negativity and Drama. In their misplaced search to find happiness, they seek out people to tear down in order to make themselves feel better. There are going to be people out there that are insecure, unhappy with themselves and lack self-confidence. bad idea! 😉 Naturally, we want people on our side, but do you really want someone by your side purely by guilt or fear? Definitely not worth it….at least in my opinion! 🙂 Some friends/family may feel the pressure to “pick a side” between the two of you, or possibly you or your ex try to pressure friends/family to pick a side……. The discomfort and stress can spread not only throughout the couple, but to their friends/family as well. Divorce isn’t an easy process for anyone. It’s hard to believe that when you are in the middle of the storm, but giving yourself the opportunity to step back, take a breath and to look around, you will find the people in your life that are truly your friends.Īs I have mentioned in past posts ( Never stop learning Divorce sure is pretty…), divorce is definitely one of those situations that tests your resolve and the strength of your friendships. But, for everyone of those types of people you can find just as many kind-hearted, supportive, caring friends. Dont Let Anyone Ever Dull Your SPARKLE', followed by 653 people on Pinterest. There are going to be people out there that don’t respect you, are unkind, unhappy or are just plain bullies. Dont let these people get you down: 'Some people are so broken, they get mad at you for being whole.' Cole. Whether you are a teen struggling through adolescence or middle aged and fighting your way through the rut of the everyday, it’s helpful to remind yourself of that. No matter what stage of life you are in, that reminder is always relevant.
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